Threat Level

Over the years, I have received my share of angry letters and calls. So when I received a long, ranting voicemail from an anonymous number claiming my culpability over centuries-old theological conspiracies and promising judgment, I chalked it up to a troubled person who stumbled upon my number. However, shortly after that message, my next voicemail was from a shaken colleague who received a similar voicemail and was inquiring about the next actions to take. I assured him it was nothing, but he didn’t sound convinced. “Did you listen to the message?” he asked with a little skepticism. To calm his nerves, I told him I would contact the police and seek their guidance.

As I chatted with the police officer, he asked me question after question. My own nerves started to rattle a bit. After talking about some next steps, the officer kindly offered, “I’m sorry you experienced this.” Trying to seem nonchalant, I replied, “Oh, I’m kind of used to it.” There was a pause on the other line before he said: “Well then, I’m sorrier you’ve gotten used to it.”

As I hung up the phone, I was glad I had called, but I felt troubled by the officer’s observation. Growing up, we’re often encouraged to develop a “thick skin.” There have been too many tragedies to prove that we can never believe we are 100% safe. However, I wondered if all that “thick skinning” over time might prevent me from understanding the risks involved or the threat level of a given situation.

As a leader and a disciple, I may have signed up to be in difficult or uncomfortable situations, but do those I lead and love take on the same responsibility? If I’m not careful, will I make what I’ve become comfortable with become the benchmark for others? How do I stay tough without hardening my heart?

My colleague was grateful to know I wasn’t worried and that I also wasn’t taking it lightly. As we begin this new week, let’s be sure to help others engage their challenges with eyes wide open but assured in the hope only He can give.